I would like to however point out that the judicial system (to its full extent) is also part of “our system”. (by the way the justice system comes in handy also when someone brokes a *contract*…)

The mother’s sister was right: “you must go to court”

If he *really* had wanted to see his daughter, he should have done it. Anouther court order, Court of Appeal, contact the Finnish police if you like if there are misconducts.

At the end of his web page “Penny drops” he explains he should not have to do it, it costs money…

But seriously, so what? Apparently he’s “nearly bankrupted” himself anyway! And wasted years making these protests, featuring in news articles, even protesting in photographs at different countries, making letters and appeals to everywhere (except the correct Finnish court in this case) and making these web pages (which he says are not even designed to get access with the daughter, or contact with authorities).

It just seems not so wise.

Employ on their own merit, not because of what tick boxes they can fulfil.

Nah, too liberal.

You should go live in somewhere like Saudi Arabia. They know how to keep those “women libbers” in their place. Do you feel threatened by affirmative action as well?

Yeah, just a bit.

Through all the bullshit arguments about the rights of mom and dad, the system, the law, the culture etc. The kids are the one’s who end up getting the bad end of the deal in the end. Always has and always will.

Ah, don’t we just love woman’s lib.. Its a joke. Woman’s lib is just another way to screw men, and have some fun doing it.

Any system that does not make BOTH parents equal, and I mean equal everything, is a system set up against men by women libbers.

No, it’s not. The woman has ultimate authority the child, unless she gives it up in a contract. And obviously, 99% of the time, the mother will want the father involved in the child’s life and they’ll agree on a contract. …Unless maybe daddy is an abusive drunk or something.

My system?

Do you more or less agree with how these situations are handled now in Finland? Or would you make major changes?

Right. This is in contradiction to your earlier statement which was this:

I guess I’m a neo-feminist in that regard, I believe that women should have the ultimately authority over her baby, unless she agrees to have the father involved.

At first you say that mothers shoudl have the ultimate authorities over their babies, then all of a sudden you want the couples to decide on these things together.

Your system is what is failing this family.

My system?

My post-modern feminist system would not have social workers and judges who rid men of their rights to parenthood under the guise of “neo-feminism” or other such BS.

I hope you’re not implying that I’m some f*cking commie.